Waiting and Sexual Integrity

What is sexual integrity?

Sexual integrity is making a decision to postpone sexual activity at this time in your life to protect yourself from unhealthy choices that you may regret later-choices that may leave you feeling hurt and empty when a relationship ends. Sexual integrity redefines intimacy to encompass more than the physical aspect of relationship. It enlarges your relationships to include the mind, will and emotions-the whole person. Though you may never have thought of waiting to have sex in marriage, this choice is a legitimate option.

What are the benefits?

• No need for birth control and no worry about it failing.
• No stress about STDs or unplanned pregnancies.
• You can focus on your education, work and interests.
• You're taking good care of your spirit, soul, and body.
• You can have healthy relationships not complicated by sex.
• You are free you to grow in confidence and discipline-which carry over into other areas of your life!
• It resettles your core values rather than compromising them.

Sexual integrity requires a lot of maturity-it's a huge decision because it serves your highest interests. Are the benefits worth it? Only you can decide, but if you'd like to talk with someone, we are available for a confidential, non-judgmental discussion.

How do I actually practice sexual integrity?

Make a plan for handling sexual temptations. Consider situations that easily lead to sexual activity-being alone in a private place with your partner or drinking, doing drugs. Thinking through common scenarios helps you to form healthy boundaries and prepares you to handle pressure from others. There are convincing ways to explain your standards and to respond to pressure that will keep your sexual integrity intact.

A Focus on Your Future

Impact your future in a positive way. 'Living out' the decision of sexual integrity keeps the focus of your relationship geared to the 'whole person' rather than just the physical. Frankly, most people will eventually marry and practicing the discipline of sexual integrity prepares you to shape qualities that line up with higher standards for a potential mate. Sexual integrity prompts you to practice faithfulness in relationships both prior to and during marriage. Think it over-the discipline and values you live by today can affect the trust and respect of any future relationship.

To discuss sexual integrity in more depth and to determine how to apply it in your own life, call us today and make an appointment!